I didn't safeword when I should have. I let the scene continue because I wanted to be the "cool" boyfriend. M made out with Jake for 20 minutes. On the drive home, I was silent.
In a "top" scenario—meaning one that perfectly hits the mark—the experience usually involves three specific pillars:
Emphasize that your pleasure comes from seeing her experience pleasure.
Who gets to choose the third party? Many couples prefer a respectful stranger found through lifestyle apps (like Feeld or specialized forums) rather than a mutual friend, to avoid social awkwardness later.